I love Pompeii also because of its history, or its fate, I rather say. For nothing like the sudden disappearance of an entire civilization is exemplary of the ephemeral nature of life and – as a direct consequence – of the importance of letting go of old ideas that don’t serve us any more, or of new obsessions that never will. The people of Pompeii had no idea that, from one day to the other, they would be buried in ash, and forgotten for more than 1600 years. This history test never fails to find me unprepared. I reference ancient Roman history because I had to let go of a lot in the past six weeks, from the very birth of Catherine, on December 16, 2017.
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Time Goes By Fast: From Labor to Birth and Coming Home
Giving birth has been such a transcendent, life-changing experience that I wanted to keep intact every memory. But I was also grieving who
I had been until then, not yet knowing who I had become.
Thank You, Tom
Will you still be my mom in heaven? I’d ask my mom when I was a little girl. We lived in a very small apartment, and my feelings were so overwhelmingly big that they had…
Pregnancy and Eating Disorders: My Truth
I didn’t know that, with the joy of my much longed-for pregnancy, the horror of my bulimia and anorexia could come back so violently after three years of healing: with a vengeance, actually, despite intense…
Home Is Wherever We Feel At Home
I am always ambivalent about going back to Italy, where I was born and raised. And now that these three weeks of Italian Christmas vacation have come to an end, it’s time to look back…